The Tao of Douchebaggery

We all get frustrated with the seemingly futile constant patterns we encounter in our daily lives. We all have wants. We all have needs. At times it seems no one is understanding of much of anything. We try our damnedest to succeed at filling at least our most minimal, basic wants and needs. Often it seems that when we try the hardest is when we're less likely to succeed. It's almost as if people refuse to see our efforts intentionally. Could it be perhaps that we were too focused on our own struggles to communicate effectively? Are we possibly too quick to make snap judgments and negative deductions dismissing everyone who could be able to give us what we need? There's a lot of ego at play in modern day interacting and sadly not a lot of self reflecting much less second chances or altered first perceptions. We get angry when people misjudge us meanwhile we're quick to deem others unworthy without so much as a hint of empathy. Sometimes we never even say somethin