You can still have fun with a woman who wants a relationship
I was talking via text with a guy who bragged that he's always straight up about what he is looking for because it makes it easier. I was complaining about a date who kept me preoccupied with talking about myself while he shoved beers at me, didn't seem at all interested in what I was saying, only that I kept drinking and kept interrupting me with suggestions we go someplace else which turned out to be a preference for my apt.. and how I hate the presumption when I haven't given any indication of feeling flirtatious because I hadn't found him at all attractive and he didn't try to sell himself either. Must have read that women rate their dates as going well when they are the focus of the conversation but I say this is not true! You need to be charming and charming is not buying us too many drinks. So I ask the first guy "oh? so what are you looking for then?" and he says "I'm too busy for a relationship. I'm just looking for fun." I i